Relationships done Wrong

While we are the generation which is regarded as break up done wrong. Ever wonder what is the reason for such breaks up, mental trauma.
Let me tell you few instances where we go wrong in life, the reason why we end up on note of break up in relationship.

Look around yourself and see how many people are settling in..?? Probably, a HELL lot of. People settle into Okay relationships, Okay jobs, Okay friendships, and most importantly Okay life.
I WONDER why only Okay..?? Why not something you deserve. Probably because OKAY is comfortable.... Okay pay bills, it provides warm bed at night.

Many people are fine with okay...and that's Okay.
I tell you okay is not passion, it's not life changing or unforgettable. OKAY is just another reason why you don't want to risk absolutely and everything you got for the smallest change that something absolutely amazing could happen.

Don't settle for okay, love hurts. No, love doesn't hurt, wrong love does, wrong lover hurts. Don't accept something normal and live normal life. Except more, demand more and live more. 

Now where is the problem, why we make fault while choosing the right person..??

Do you know the worst thing a man can do to a women in life..?
It is making her fall in love with you when you have no intentions of loving her back. When you have no intention of loving the girl, it just you find attractive and want to date, and look Macho in society coz you have girlfriend. Than please stay away, you are at wrong place. Men are of manners and chivalry. They know how to treat a women. They are kind and witty and stay loyal in both friendship and love.

And guess what women's mistake is, they choose wrong men and paint all the men as demons. Ladies out there, if your eyes can't see beyond a beard and biceps, then you deserve eyes full of water. There is so much more to men than what camera captures. Don't love a eye feast love a soul food.

You can't cheat on someone if you are in love with them, you just can't do it, you wouldn't even consider doing it. If you can cheat on someone you claim to be in love with, you are not in love, you are just in love with the idea of being in love.  

LOVE is just a rope of sand, in the generation of dates, where people mingle to get dates... True love has lost it's place.

When we date, we search for looks, style, body etc.... How many you have looked for good heart..??
The problem with good heart people is they see best in you when you don't need them. When you are at worst, they will lift you up, keeping aside their priorities. For them the word 'busy' doesn't exist only... They will make time for you, even when you don't make for them. And you wonder why they are more sensitive and caring people.  They are willing to give so much of themselves with no expectation in return and you think their existence isn't that essential to your well being.. 

Just coz they don't make you work hard for the attention they give you. They accept the love they think they have earned and you accept the love you think you are entitled to.

I'll tell you one thing the day the good heart will give up on you, your skies will turn dark, you'll miss the sunshine in your life, and your world will turn numb. Remember a heart does not turn cold until it's been treated with coldness for a while.

Don't choose people in life with just the outside looks or money or style, just it makes the person looks attractive doesn't mean it's LOVE.... A good book never reveals its secret in once, and you can never judge a book by its cover.

Attraction is a temporary love and love is permanent attraction, just the matter of words but makes a big difference in life.

Just don't enter any relationship just with the idea of being in LOVE.... Don't look for love,  let love find you, that's why it is called falling in love, coz you just fall.