Value of Every Relation

One poem which makes us think over and above every relation we are holding, just read and understand the depth of the words.

When I'll be dead.....,
Your tears will flow...,
But I won't know...
Cry for me now instead!!


You will send flowers...,
But I won't see...,
Send them now instead!!


You'll forget my faults...,
But I won't know...,
Forget them now instead!!


You'll miss me then...,
But I won't feel...,
Miss me now instead!!


You'll wish..,
You could have spent more time with me...,
Spend it now instead!!

In life, we never value the things we have until we lost them it is correctly said we never value things which we have coz we think we won't lose them but the day we lose them, the day the thing has left us, the day we realize the value and importance of that particular thing in our life. It might be small or it might be big...the most importantly the relations we hold be it with parents, sister-brothers, relatives, friends or any stranger you meet in your life, everyone has a role to play be it big or small. Certainly in our life sometimes we give too much importance to things that we forget that there are people who belong to you, they love you, probably you might mean everything to them, they are fighting for you every day, they are living for you, they make your dream as theirs. Do you believe that there are no accidents in life?? Everything happens for a reason. Every person we meet will have a role in our lives, be it big or be it small. Some will hate, betray and make us cry.To become stronger. Some will teach us lessons, not to change us, but for us to realize our mistakes and to help us grow and make us a better person. And some would simply inspire and love us to make us happy. In this race what we forget is we make our Ego so loud that we forget to care for those who cared for you, those who stand by you in every situation just to make sure that you are having everything that is required. Don't hurt those people in your life..!! Let us take a situation,

Yeah I Know You TEXTED or SEND a message To Someone TODAY But You Got NO REPLY Right? Message Got Delivered To That Person And Definately He or she Saw It but Didnt Reply.
When you log in on FACEBOOK you See Them Updating Status....When You See Them on WhatsApp YOU see THEM online..Then You wonder Who Are they texting. Why Cant
He or she Reply me?, You ask yourself what DID I do WRONG?. It HURTS so Much Being Ignored By That person You like or love With FULL Heart....But Did You Know They Are Facing same PROBLEM as YOU? They are BUSY chasing Those they LOVE or LIKE. They have also been texting and get no reply Just Like you? Yeah of course They Going Through The Same But We
Are Here Blaming each Other Over nothing STRESSING OVER nothing THINKING over someone who is busy Thinking over someone else.  We do not sustain what we have; yet, If you talk to anyone around, you will realize that strained relationship are the most common source of worry....!!!!

You never know while you were busy with other especially who never valued you, you'll loose one who always valued you and was always afraid to loose you. Don't be with, a person who decides to comeback be with one who never leaves you. The reason I am saying this is the person will never realize the value of yours in their life until you leave, the day you leave the person will realize the value and the person who never left you always knew your importance your value while you were busy chasing other... tring to bring back that person in your life, you didn't realize that there was one who valued you and you lost them. You'll realize the difference in value when both the person one whom you are chasing and other who is chasing you both has left your side. Sometimes you never know the true value of moment until it becames memories. Eventually, you begin to realize that life is too short and your powers to teach, influence or heal is limited. You finally accept that their emptiness, pain, dysfunction requires more than you have to give. You can't handle your whole life and soul to someone who doesn't even care about their own. Letting go is excruciating heartbreak; mourning the death of what once was. If you did someone let go, and you still have guilt, it's time to forgive yourself and begin to heal yourself. If it is a time to let someone go, for their sake, or for yours, then this may be confirmation, as the saying goes: "Dead people receive more flower than living people coz regret is stronger than gratitude.".