Relation And Time

When I was a child, I never knew what relationship was,
The day I understood it right, I started making mistakes.
I just got involved to it, just to understand what it is,
As I grew old, I thought am I the oldest of all??

The chain of mistakes also grew with me,
Time was also passing by me.
Sometimes, I had the time,
but I didn’t know how to spend it right…
Even after having time,
I still gave the excuse of not having time,
In dream of achieving everything,
I kept losing everything.

I never understood the value of relations,
Just, because I was already broken inside.
Trying to handle myself,I kept telling myself,
I understood what is right.

In the path of life,
When I finally learned from my mistakes,
The day I started valuing relations,
Life flashed in front of me and I stood and saw,
What I left behind was relations and time.

Failure And Success

As the saying goes Failures are the pillars of success.....yes failure is the base to a real success. The word failure from which everyone is scared in real life its actually more powerful word today as we compare to success you know why?? "Success always comes in private but failure comes in public". So any individual would not like to face failure but the reality is this when failure comes in public it makes you stronger, you gain something, remember don’t be afraid of failure…but yes afraid of not learning from your failure…success comes to those who try something new everyday, try to learn and understand something new and if you have any doubt remember…it’s always better to regret something after doing it rather than regretting without doing it because by doing something, even if you don’t gain anything, you gain experience you just don't loose something so when you loose you gain experience. As the saying goes,

Attack is the Best form of Defence.

As the proverb says, attack is the best form of defence... You just can't sit in cocoon and try to create a shield around yourself , if you do so you are harming yourself by taking up the pressure of outside world over yourself and just not fighting back with them, if you do it on regular basic than people have a general tendency to consider you as a underdog as you won't fight back. If you try to become soft cotton rather than a confident person with pain, you need to become as hard as coconut from outside and as soft as coconut pulp from inside. If you don't  do so you will always have a weak heart, a heart which can't bear anything neither a bit of pressure nor a bit of happiness.