Today in twenty first century people define relationship in many
different ways…..some say its a bond of two soul….some defines it as
blood relation but today people defines it as a matter of time because
of that some of the biggest challenge in relationship come from the fact
that most people enter a relationship in order to get something.They’re
trying to find someone who’s going to make them feel good that’s the
reason it’s both a blessing and curse to feel so very deeply.
Today people who are close one’s are one who stab you in the back when you need them the most.You have been lied by those who you love.In reality, yes it’s just difficult to understand but there is no market for your emotions but, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give not a place that you go to take.
It’s difficult to pursue when you felt alone when you couldn’t afford to be.But at the end of the day, you had to learn to be your own best friend because there’s going to be days where no one is going to be there for you but you yourself…!!
Relationship have made ourselves like people who do drugs, or people constantly running……all of them searching something or another in a person or say searching for that tiny space, perhaps a hole, that gives them shelter from the terrible reality of world. Sometimes the unhappiest people in this world, are those who care the most what other people thing. Growth is painful, Change in relationship is painful similarly but nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don’t belong to.
In life, you’ll meet many people some you never think about again. Some you’ll wonder what happened to them. There are some that you wonder if they ever think about you. And then there are some you wish you never had to think about them again but yo do. Do you ever think why?? because no one wants to give up on someone they LOVE, such as relative,friends or lover. But sometimes we are forced to make decision by extraordinary suffering. It’s easy to judge or say,”never give-up“,until you have been there. Eventually, you begin to realize that life is too short and your powers to teach, influence or heal are limited.You finally accept that emptiness, pain and dysfunction requires more than you have to give. You can’t hand your whole life and soul to someone who doesn’t even care about their own. Letting go is an excruciating heartbreak, mourning the death of what once was. If you did let someone go, and you still have guilt ,it’s time to forgive yourself and begin to heal. If it is the time to let some one go, for their sake, or for yours then this may be your confirmation.
Build a beautiful soul there’s always something beautiful to be experienced wherever you are. So you don’t need anyone’s affection or approval in order to be good enough…..when someone rejects or abandons or judges you, it isn’t actually about you. It’s about them and their own insecurities, limitations and needs and you don’t have to internalize that. Your worth isn’t contingent upon other people’s acceptance of you — it’s something inherent. You exist, and therefore, you matter. You are allowed to voice your thoughts and feelings. You are allowed to assert your needs and take up space. You’re allowed to hold onto the truth that who you are is exactly enough. And you’re allowed to remove anyone from your life who makes you feel otherwise.
So you have to become the change you want to see….So I say…
I believe in the power of hug, looking in the eye when speaking, a hand shake to connect,
I believe in humanity, responsibility and the Power of kindness…
I believe in the unknown following the spark and the power of intention…
I believe we are all one, love is the answer and we all need to get along to evolve..
I believe in YOU, ME, and WE…..relations we hold that’s why my day gets happier when I give a bit of my heart rather than a piece of my mind to people.
Today people who are close one’s are one who stab you in the back when you need them the most.You have been lied by those who you love.In reality, yes it’s just difficult to understand but there is no market for your emotions but, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give not a place that you go to take.
It’s difficult to pursue when you felt alone when you couldn’t afford to be.But at the end of the day, you had to learn to be your own best friend because there’s going to be days where no one is going to be there for you but you yourself…!!
Relationship have made ourselves like people who do drugs, or people constantly running……all of them searching something or another in a person or say searching for that tiny space, perhaps a hole, that gives them shelter from the terrible reality of world. Sometimes the unhappiest people in this world, are those who care the most what other people thing. Growth is painful, Change in relationship is painful similarly but nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don’t belong to.
In life, you’ll meet many people some you never think about again. Some you’ll wonder what happened to them. There are some that you wonder if they ever think about you. And then there are some you wish you never had to think about them again but yo do. Do you ever think why?? because no one wants to give up on someone they LOVE, such as relative,friends or lover. But sometimes we are forced to make decision by extraordinary suffering. It’s easy to judge or say,”never give-up“,until you have been there. Eventually, you begin to realize that life is too short and your powers to teach, influence or heal are limited.You finally accept that emptiness, pain and dysfunction requires more than you have to give. You can’t hand your whole life and soul to someone who doesn’t even care about their own. Letting go is an excruciating heartbreak, mourning the death of what once was. If you did let someone go, and you still have guilt ,it’s time to forgive yourself and begin to heal. If it is the time to let some one go, for their sake, or for yours then this may be your confirmation.
Build a beautiful soul there’s always something beautiful to be experienced wherever you are. So you don’t need anyone’s affection or approval in order to be good enough…..when someone rejects or abandons or judges you, it isn’t actually about you. It’s about them and their own insecurities, limitations and needs and you don’t have to internalize that. Your worth isn’t contingent upon other people’s acceptance of you — it’s something inherent. You exist, and therefore, you matter. You are allowed to voice your thoughts and feelings. You are allowed to assert your needs and take up space. You’re allowed to hold onto the truth that who you are is exactly enough. And you’re allowed to remove anyone from your life who makes you feel otherwise.
So you have to become the change you want to see….So I say…
I believe in the power of hug, looking in the eye when speaking, a hand shake to connect,
I believe in humanity, responsibility and the Power of kindness…
I believe in the unknown following the spark and the power of intention…
I believe we are all one, love is the answer and we all need to get along to evolve..
I believe in YOU, ME, and WE…..relations we hold that’s why my day gets happier when I give a bit of my heart rather than a piece of my mind to people.
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