Finding the meaning of life in the journey of life…..we always have
question in ourselves about this beautiful, lovely and amazing place,
who created it?? who sent us here?? why he sent us here?? Purpose of our
life?? what life is all about, we always try to find answer to this
question. But the truth is no body has been able to know that till date
and I ask myself, whether this question needs an answer or probably its
not even important, or its just your perspective. People tell me don’t
waste your time on such question, because we all have a limited time
here and however we might have enough time, it always seems less. There
is so much to see,so much to know, and so much to experience that you
don’t have any single second to waste.
But the basic thing which people don’t understand in this life is life itself is constitutes of very limited thing…if you explore them then you might get to unfold some basic answer of your life…possibilities are endless, you can become anything….you can do anything….you have the power to change yourselves….you have the power to change this world….but for that you need to know yourself the meaning of your life, the reason for which you are here, as proverb says , “Life is nothing but a beautiful lie“, firstly, you need to know is that life only constitutes of family, friends, love, happiness, success, relations and last element and most important element yourself. You have to see them, you need to know them what they are…what role they play in your life…probably they are around you but you don’t even the meaning to them….all you care is what world will think of you. Don’t worry, don’t expect others to accept you as yourself, don’t change yourself according to others requirement… don’t be fake. Be you whoever you are, be genuine. People have the tendency to judge you without walking in your shoe…so don’t freaking care for their judgement because it will not always be correct because they probably never even been you. If you need to really find the meaning to word life…the first element you need to understand is “PARENTS or FAMILY” yes your first priority, one who gave you birth, the one who love you the most in this world of hawk….if someone asks me where is God, I reply them in the face of Parents I can see God, the only God on planet earth is your parents because it is said god gave birth to everyone, and my parents gave me birth so for me my parents will be only God. Worship your Parents. Your family sister, brothers are the closest of you cherish them.
Second element is friend from whom you build your world, in the unpredictable journey, we can’t trust anyone but still our state of mind and our need to have somebody close prove that all wrong . We meet thousands and lacks of people in a circulation and forms a relation know as FRIENDSHIP…. you share secrets, gossips, fun everything from hard time to good time you spent with them cherish them…
then comes the next element love, people define love in different sense but how I define Love is as, you don’t know what’s going on in someone else life so treat everyone as you treat yourself…. be as lenient to others as you are to yourself, respect everyone, trust everyone and most importantly love everyone…because love is very sparse in this world and everyone needs it…and you will also need it one day and that time don’t hesitate to ask for it….don’t hesitate to show it….so spread love as much as you can…
Then come happiness in life ….before saying anything tell me how happy are you?? or tell me have you live the moment?? I was expecting the very same answer from you NO you are not….the reason is every passing day of our life what we achieve we don’t celebrate…we postpone it to for next achievement and that next time never come…do you ever remember when you laughed out loudly and celebrated it probably no….the thing is i’ll take up the example of we thought we would celebrate our victory after clearing 10+2 boards as soon as we clear it we postpone it to next when we will get good college so on so for it goes on…last 12 years we were waiting for the moment but when we got we postponed it for next time….we are always getting ready to get ready all the time but never get ready because we think whenever the occasion will come we will have celebration but the thing is the day you lived your life happily you celebrated it will be the occasion others will be only dates in calendar so just live the moment…enjoy…be happy in every moment…cherish it…!!
The next very element is success….don’t count success by where are you today because some succeed because they were destined to but most succeed because they were determined to. Remember don’t be afraid of failure…but yes afraid of not learning from your failure…success comes to those who try something new everyday, try to learn and understand something new and if you have any doubt remember…it’s always better to regret something after doing it rather than regretting without doing it because by doing something, even if you don’t gain anything, you gain experience which is very valuable…experience everything but don’t get addicted somewhere experience will help you differentiate between what is right and what is wrong…it will prevent you from committing mistakes because only those who do something make mistakes…take responsibility for your mistakes and try to rectify them forgive other people’s mistake and give them a chance to rectify it. no one likes to commit mistakes, no one misbehaves on purpose…you don’t know by what they are dealing to. So experience is the thing which will create a ladder of success it up to you how you climb it.
Relation the next important element of life ever wonder how many relations you hold in life 1,2,3…countless…hold on to them…don’t grip it hard it will die but don’t leave it loosely it will break….it’s on you how you need to hold it…be firm…the best part about relation is it has a sense of belonging with other people where you give and take and a sense of compromise from both side can be seen, the bond is their which the keep the two people together. So don’t loose your relation in life with people whom you are too close too, handle it carefully, cherish it. It will help you grow and mold your own self.
Lastly when you add up all above thing you find yourself a person who love and always act as childish in front of parents became mature and have sense of responsibility with siblings…a fun loving person with friends from sharing secrets,helping them..coping with difficult situations…finding the meaning to happiness can be seen from above then out of all he achieves success with help of them and hard work and lastly how he handles relation with success which molded him its is all LIFE nothing more than it and nothing less than it.
Understanding yourself, the universe and your place in society it will be easy to find meaning because you will determine what is meaningful, you will be able to separate the noise of language and society from the true sound of yourself. For yourself what brings meaning to your existence. Your life meaning will be know because that time you won’t fear death , getting old or the various travails all of us encounter. Your destiny, your reason for being here will be apparent every waking hour. Contentment and bliss will flow. And finally find how you fit into this life, you are a piece of the puzzle. most of us live a life of imagination and when reality hits us we become disappointed and we lose the meaning to word life in our life. We need to see a bigger picture of life and know that the small things you do now fits into the fits into the bigger picture.
FINALLY would conclude with Life is not a rehearsal, each day is a new show, no repeat, no rewind so give your best in all your worthy act as the show must go on.
But the basic thing which people don’t understand in this life is life itself is constitutes of very limited thing…if you explore them then you might get to unfold some basic answer of your life…possibilities are endless, you can become anything….you can do anything….you have the power to change yourselves….you have the power to change this world….but for that you need to know yourself the meaning of your life, the reason for which you are here, as proverb says , “Life is nothing but a beautiful lie“, firstly, you need to know is that life only constitutes of family, friends, love, happiness, success, relations and last element and most important element yourself. You have to see them, you need to know them what they are…what role they play in your life…probably they are around you but you don’t even the meaning to them….all you care is what world will think of you. Don’t worry, don’t expect others to accept you as yourself, don’t change yourself according to others requirement… don’t be fake. Be you whoever you are, be genuine. People have the tendency to judge you without walking in your shoe…so don’t freaking care for their judgement because it will not always be correct because they probably never even been you. If you need to really find the meaning to word life…the first element you need to understand is “PARENTS or FAMILY” yes your first priority, one who gave you birth, the one who love you the most in this world of hawk….if someone asks me where is God, I reply them in the face of Parents I can see God, the only God on planet earth is your parents because it is said god gave birth to everyone, and my parents gave me birth so for me my parents will be only God. Worship your Parents. Your family sister, brothers are the closest of you cherish them.
Second element is friend from whom you build your world, in the unpredictable journey, we can’t trust anyone but still our state of mind and our need to have somebody close prove that all wrong . We meet thousands and lacks of people in a circulation and forms a relation know as FRIENDSHIP…. you share secrets, gossips, fun everything from hard time to good time you spent with them cherish them…
then comes the next element love, people define love in different sense but how I define Love is as, you don’t know what’s going on in someone else life so treat everyone as you treat yourself…. be as lenient to others as you are to yourself, respect everyone, trust everyone and most importantly love everyone…because love is very sparse in this world and everyone needs it…and you will also need it one day and that time don’t hesitate to ask for it….don’t hesitate to show it….so spread love as much as you can…
Then come happiness in life ….before saying anything tell me how happy are you?? or tell me have you live the moment?? I was expecting the very same answer from you NO you are not….the reason is every passing day of our life what we achieve we don’t celebrate…we postpone it to for next achievement and that next time never come…do you ever remember when you laughed out loudly and celebrated it probably no….the thing is i’ll take up the example of we thought we would celebrate our victory after clearing 10+2 boards as soon as we clear it we postpone it to next when we will get good college so on so for it goes on…last 12 years we were waiting for the moment but when we got we postponed it for next time….we are always getting ready to get ready all the time but never get ready because we think whenever the occasion will come we will have celebration but the thing is the day you lived your life happily you celebrated it will be the occasion others will be only dates in calendar so just live the moment…enjoy…be happy in every moment…cherish it…!!
The next very element is success….don’t count success by where are you today because some succeed because they were destined to but most succeed because they were determined to. Remember don’t be afraid of failure…but yes afraid of not learning from your failure…success comes to those who try something new everyday, try to learn and understand something new and if you have any doubt remember…it’s always better to regret something after doing it rather than regretting without doing it because by doing something, even if you don’t gain anything, you gain experience which is very valuable…experience everything but don’t get addicted somewhere experience will help you differentiate between what is right and what is wrong…it will prevent you from committing mistakes because only those who do something make mistakes…take responsibility for your mistakes and try to rectify them forgive other people’s mistake and give them a chance to rectify it. no one likes to commit mistakes, no one misbehaves on purpose…you don’t know by what they are dealing to. So experience is the thing which will create a ladder of success it up to you how you climb it.
Relation the next important element of life ever wonder how many relations you hold in life 1,2,3…countless…hold on to them…don’t grip it hard it will die but don’t leave it loosely it will break….it’s on you how you need to hold it…be firm…the best part about relation is it has a sense of belonging with other people where you give and take and a sense of compromise from both side can be seen, the bond is their which the keep the two people together. So don’t loose your relation in life with people whom you are too close too, handle it carefully, cherish it. It will help you grow and mold your own self.
Lastly when you add up all above thing you find yourself a person who love and always act as childish in front of parents became mature and have sense of responsibility with siblings…a fun loving person with friends from sharing secrets,helping them..coping with difficult situations…finding the meaning to happiness can be seen from above then out of all he achieves success with help of them and hard work and lastly how he handles relation with success which molded him its is all LIFE nothing more than it and nothing less than it.
Understanding yourself, the universe and your place in society it will be easy to find meaning because you will determine what is meaningful, you will be able to separate the noise of language and society from the true sound of yourself. For yourself what brings meaning to your existence. Your life meaning will be know because that time you won’t fear death , getting old or the various travails all of us encounter. Your destiny, your reason for being here will be apparent every waking hour. Contentment and bliss will flow. And finally find how you fit into this life, you are a piece of the puzzle. most of us live a life of imagination and when reality hits us we become disappointed and we lose the meaning to word life in our life. We need to see a bigger picture of life and know that the small things you do now fits into the fits into the bigger picture.
FINALLY would conclude with Life is not a rehearsal, each day is a new show, no repeat, no rewind so give your best in all your worthy act as the show must go on.
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