Value of Every Relation

One poem which makes us think over and above every relation we are holding, just read and understand the depth of the words.

When I'll be dead.....,
Your tears will flow...,
But I won't know...
Cry for me now instead!!


You will send flowers...,
But I won't see...,
Send them now instead!!


You'll forget my faults...,
But I won't know...,
Forget them now instead!!


You'll miss me then...,
But I won't feel...,
Miss me now instead!!


You'll wish..,
You could have spent more time with me...,
Spend it now instead!!

In life, we never value the things we have until we lost them it is correctly said we never value things which we have coz we think we won't lose them but the day we lose them, the day the thing has left us, the day we realize the value and importance of that particular thing in our life. It might be small or it might be big...the most importantly the relations we hold be it with parents, sister-brothers, relatives, friends or any stranger you meet in your life, everyone has a role to play be it big or small. Certainly in our life sometimes we give too much importance to things that we forget that there are people who belong to you, they love you, probably you might mean everything to them, they are fighting for you every day, they are living for you, they make your dream as theirs. Do you believe that there are no accidents in life?? Everything happens for a reason. Every person we meet will have a role in our lives, be it big or be it small. Some will hate, betray and make us cry.To become stronger. Some will teach us lessons, not to change us, but for us to realize our mistakes and to help us grow and make us a better person. And some would simply inspire and love us to make us happy. In this race what we forget is we make our Ego so loud that we forget to care for those who cared for you, those who stand by you in every situation just to make sure that you are having everything that is required. Don't hurt those people in your life..!! Let us take a situation,

Yeah I Know You TEXTED or SEND a message To Someone TODAY But You Got NO REPLY Right? Message Got Delivered To That Person And Definately He or she Saw It but Didnt Reply.
When you log in on FACEBOOK you See Them Updating Status....When You See Them on WhatsApp YOU see THEM online..Then You wonder Who Are they texting. Why Cant
He or she Reply me?, You ask yourself what DID I do WRONG?. It HURTS so Much Being Ignored By That person You like or love With FULL Heart....But Did You Know They Are Facing same PROBLEM as YOU? They are BUSY chasing Those they LOVE or LIKE. They have also been texting and get no reply Just Like you? Yeah of course They Going Through The Same But We
Are Here Blaming each Other Over nothing STRESSING OVER nothing THINKING over someone who is busy Thinking over someone else.  We do not sustain what we have; yet, If you talk to anyone around, you will realize that strained relationship are the most common source of worry....!!!!

You never know while you were busy with other especially who never valued you, you'll loose one who always valued you and was always afraid to loose you. Don't be with, a person who decides to comeback be with one who never leaves you. The reason I am saying this is the person will never realize the value of yours in their life until you leave, the day you leave the person will realize the value and the person who never left you always knew your importance your value while you were busy chasing other... tring to bring back that person in your life, you didn't realize that there was one who valued you and you lost them. You'll realize the difference in value when both the person one whom you are chasing and other who is chasing you both has left your side. Sometimes you never know the true value of moment until it becames memories. Eventually, you begin to realize that life is too short and your powers to teach, influence or heal is limited. You finally accept that their emptiness, pain, dysfunction requires more than you have to give. You can't handle your whole life and soul to someone who doesn't even care about their own. Letting go is excruciating heartbreak; mourning the death of what once was. If you did someone let go, and you still have guilt, it's time to forgive yourself and begin to heal yourself. If it is a time to let someone go, for their sake, or for yours, then this may be confirmation, as the saying goes: "Dead people receive more flower than living people coz regret is stronger than gratitude.". 
 

Friendship

We all need someone
To talk to in our life,
A friend to whom we run
In times of stress or strife

A friend who's always there
Throughout the years,
A friend we know will care
And take away our fears.

A friend who's always near,
Waiting for our call,
To wipe away our tears,
And lift us when we fall.

A loving friend indeed,
On whom we can depend
To fulfill our every need -

Friends are who you need the most,
When times are not so right.
They come and go so frequently,
You hope you pick one right.

The right one listens with both ears,
And soothes your aching heart.
The right one never questions you,
When you seem to fall apart.

The friend for you is one who says,
"Be calm and let me help"
For there are some real bad days,
When life hits you below the belt.
 All friends are not forever,

They are few and far between,
But the few true friends you do find,
Will never, ever leave.

A friend is someone with whom, your thoughts,
dreams and secrets you can share.
And no matter what you say or do, you know
that they still care.

A friend is always ready to laugh 
with you when you are glad. 
But has shoulder for you to cry on
at those times when you are sad.

A friend always want the best for you
And they are not happy until you are too.

A friend is never jealous
of the things you may attain. 
And if you are the winner you will
not hear them complain.

A friend is a person who could spend everyday
with you, from beginning to end.

When you find someone like this they are more
than a friend they are a ...BEST FRIEND

45 Incredible Quotes to Melt Your Heart..!!

~ "You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep,
    because reality is finally better than dreams."
                                                                             - Dr.Seuss


~ " You are the most beautiful thing I have ever seen.
      I will love you when you are a still day.
      I will love you when you are a hurricane."
                                                                           - Clementine Von Radics


~ "If I would had a flower for every time I thought of you..
     I would walk through my garden forever."
                                                                          - Alfred Tennyson


~ " The minute I heard my first Love story, I started looking for you,
      not knowing how blind that was. Lovers don't finally meet somewhere.
      They're in each other all along."
                                                                          - Rumi


~ "After all this time?"
    "Always", said Snape.
                                                                          - J.K.Rowling


~ "When you trip over love, it is easy to get up.
     But when you fall in love, it is impossible to stand again."
                                                                           - Oscar Wilde


~ "Love is needing someone.
     Love is putting up with someone's bad qualities
     because they somehow complete you."
                                                                        - Sarah Dessen



~ " I love you as certain dark things are to be loved,
      in secret, between the shadow and soul."
                                                                        - Pablo Neruda


~ " We are most alive when we're in love."
                                                                        - John Updike

~ " You are every reason, every hope and every dream I ever had."
                                                                       - The Notebook


~ "Love is missing someone whenever you're apart,
     but somehow feelings warm inside, because you're close in heart."
                                                                       - Kay Kundsen


~ " Let your love be like the misty rains,
      coming softly, but flooding the river."
                                                                      - Malagasy Proverb


~ " Love is too weak a word for what I feel -
      I luurve you, you know,
      I loave you, I luff you,
      two F's, yes I have to invent,
      of course I do, don't you think I do?"
                                                                     - Annie Hall


~ " Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence."
                                                                     - Erich Fromm


~ " It was a million tiny little things that,
      when you added them all up,
      they meant we were supposed to be together."
                                                                   - Sleepless in Seattle


~ " When love is not madness, it is not love."
                                                                   - Pedro Calderon De La Barca


~ " I wish I knew how to quit you!!!"
                                                                  - Brokeback Mountain


~ " I need the starshine of your heavenly eyes,
      After the day's great Sun."
                                                                  - Charles Hanson Towne


~ " Our love is like the wind,
      I can't see it, I can feel it."
                                                                  - A Walk to Remember

~ " Take a lover who looks at you like maybe you are magic."
                                                                 - Frida Kahlo


~ " For you see, each day I love you more
      Today more than yesterday and less than tomorrow."
                                                                  - Rosemonde Gerard


~ " I want you, I want all of you,
      for ever , you and me, everyday."
                                                                 - The Notebook


~ " Of all the things my eyes have seen , the best by far  is you."
                                                                 - Cecilia and The Satellite


~ " You don't love someone for their looks, or their clothes,
       or for their fancy car, but because they sign a song only you can hear."
                                                                 - Oscar Wilde


~ " You must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you."
                                                                 - Jane Austen, Pride and Prejudice


~ " I came here tonight because
     when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody,
     you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible."
                                                               - When Harry Met Sally


~ " You are, and always have been my dream."
                                                              - The Notebook


~ "I was half in love with her by the time we sat down."
                                                             - Catcher in the Rye


~ " You are the only person that can make my heart beat faster and slower at the same time."
                                                             - The Hot Chick


~ "Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same."
                                                             - Emily Bronte

~ " I carry your heart with me (I carry it in my heart)"
                                                            - E E Cummings


~ " Listen to me, mister,
      you're my knight in shinning armor. Don't forget it."
                                                            - On Golden Pond


~ " I you live to be a hundred,
      I want to live to be a hundred minus one day,
      so I never have to live without you."
                                                          - Winni The Pooh


~ "You had me at hello."
                                                         - Jerry Maguire


~ " I look at you and I'm home."
                                                        - Finding Nemo


~ " If I loved you less, I might be able to talk about it more."
                                                       - Jane Austen


~ "It would be a priviledged to have my heart broken by you."
                                                      - The Faults in Our Stars


~ " And I've realized that the Beatles got it wrong.
      Love isn't all we need - Love is all there is."
                                                   - Second Chance Summer


~ " Someday, when I'm awfully low,
      I feel a glow just thinking of you,
      and the way you look tonight."
                                                - My Best Friend's Wedding.


~ " In all the world, there is no heart for me like yours.
      In all the world, there is no love for you like mine."
                                               - Maya Angelou


~ " Tonight, I will look up at the moon;
      and I will know that somewhere you're looking  at it too."
                                             - Dear John


~ "You are what I never knew I always wanted."
                                           - Fools Rush In


~ "You are my greatest adventure."
                                          - The Incredibles


~ " We're all a little weird.
       And life is little weird.
       And when we find someone.
       whose weirdness is compatible with ours,
       we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness
       - and call it love - true love."
                                      - Robert Fulghum