Relation And Time

When I was a child, I never knew what relationship was,
The day I understood it right, I started making mistakes.
I just got involved to it, just to understand what it is,
As I grew old, I thought am I the oldest of all??

The chain of mistakes also grew with me,
Time was also passing by me.
Sometimes, I had the time,
but I didn’t know how to spend it right…
Even after having time,
I still gave the excuse of not having time,
In dream of achieving everything,
I kept losing everything.

I never understood the value of relations,
Just, because I was already broken inside.
Trying to handle myself,I kept telling myself,
I understood what is right.

In the path of life,
When I finally learned from my mistakes,
The day I started valuing relations,
Life flashed in front of me and I stood and saw,
What I left behind was relations and time.

Failure And Success

As the saying goes Failures are the pillars of success.....yes failure is the base to a real success. The word failure from which everyone is scared in real life its actually more powerful word today as we compare to success you know why?? "Success always comes in private but failure comes in public". So any individual would not like to face failure but the reality is this when failure comes in public it makes you stronger, you gain something, remember don’t be afraid of failure…but yes afraid of not learning from your failure…success comes to those who try something new everyday, try to learn and understand something new and if you have any doubt remember…it’s always better to regret something after doing it rather than regretting without doing it because by doing something, even if you don’t gain anything, you gain experience you just don't loose something so when you loose you gain experience. As the saying goes,

Attack is the Best form of Defence.

As the proverb says, attack is the best form of defence... You just can't sit in cocoon and try to create a shield around yourself , if you do so you are harming yourself by taking up the pressure of outside world over yourself and just not fighting back with them, if you do it on regular basic than people have a general tendency to consider you as a underdog as you won't fight back. If you try to become soft cotton rather than a confident person with pain, you need to become as hard as coconut from outside and as soft as coconut pulp from inside. If you don't  do so you will always have a weak heart, a heart which can't bear anything neither a bit of pressure nor a bit of happiness.

Relationship

Today in twenty first century people define relationship in many different ways…..some say its a bond of two soul….some defines it as blood relation but today people defines it as a matter of time because of that some of the biggest challenge in relationship come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something.They’re trying to find someone who’s going to make them feel good that’s the reason it’s both a blessing and curse to feel so very deeply.

Today people who are close one’s are one who stab you in the back when you need them the most.You have been lied by those who you love.In reality, yes it’s just difficult to understand but there is no market for your emotions but, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give not a place that you go to take.
It’s difficult to pursue when you felt alone when you couldn’t afford to be.But at the end of the day, you had to learn to be your own best friend because there’s going to be days where no one is going to be there for you but you yourself…!!

Finding the Meaning...

Finding the meaning of life in the journey of life…..we always have question in ourselves about this beautiful, lovely and amazing place, who created it?? who sent us here?? why he sent us here?? Purpose of our life?? what life is all about, we always try to find answer to this question. But the truth is no body has been able to know that till date and I ask myself, whether this question needs an answer or probably its not even important, or its just your perspective. People tell me don’t waste your time on such question, because we all have a limited time here and however we might have enough time, it always seems less. There is so much to see,so much to know, and so much to experience that you don’t have any single second to waste.