45 Truths About People, Relationships, And The Roller coaster Of Life
Life, with its many twists and turns, cannot be compared to any other
solitary thing. Life is too deep, wide, strange, evocative,
breathtaking, challenging, and remarkable to be like anything that
exists inside it.
During times of joy, it is easy to see the
upsides of life. We celebrate as an infusion of fresh life and energy is
added to our sphere of existence. Graduating school, obtaining a new
job, getting married, finding an amazing new group of friends, moving to
a new town, getting promoted, and completing a massive passion project
are some of the important events we may experience in life. Life is
certainly a gift — the greatest gift of all.
However, if we’re
being honest with ourselves, there are just as many heartbreaking and
motivation-weakening moments in life as there are good times. At least,
the hard moments hit us as strongly as the great ones do. It can be hard
to bounce back from a defeat, loss, or betrayal, even for the most
resilient of individuals.
Life gets ugly sometimes. Life can be
painful — extremely painful, even. We lose things we never thought would
disappear. We encounter obstacles we never imagined would stand in our
way. We walk away from agonizing conversations we never thought we’d
have to be a part of.
Life becomes a battle. It’s a daily choice
between good and better, action and laziness, clarity and confusion,
hope and hopelessness. We don’t always know if we’re going to make it
out, or how far we’ll get at all. We lean on our most trusted of friends
and family to provide what strength they can for us, and we swear to
ourselves we’ll repay them with goodness when our time comes.
We
press on into the unknown, giving uncertainties our best shot and taking
action with what we’ve been given. Life is about finding honest ways to
triumph over our struggles, and sharing that beauty with others. Here
are 43 quotes and truths about people, relationships and the roller coaster of life.
1. Be A Voice
Be a voice, not an echo: speak what you feel don't repeat what others say.
2. Don’t Be Afraid Of Being Different
Don't be afraid of being different, be afraid of being the same as everyone else.
People laugh at me because I'm different, I laugh at them because all are same.
3. Courage Doesn’t Mean You Don’t Get Afraid
Courage doesn't mean you don't get afraid. Courage means you don't let fear stop you.
4. Loving People For Who They Are
Love people for who they are and not for who you want them to be. That's where the disconnection starts.
5. When The Going Gets Tough, The Tough Get Going
You never really know the true quality of someone's character until the road gets rocky.
6. Some Walks You Have To Take Alone
Some walks you have to take alone.
7. If Life Can Remove A Loved One…
"If life can remove someone you never dreamed of losing, it can replace them with someone you never dream of having."
8. Knowing Your Own Darkness
Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darkness of other people.
9. Being You
We meet no ordinary people in our lives. If you give them a chance, Everyone has something amazing to offer.
10. Sensitivity
"I've finally accepted that sensitive is just how I was made. I don't have to change that; I don't have to fix something that's not broken."
11. Integrity
No matter how educated, talented, rich or cool you believe you are, how you treat people ultimately tells all. Integrity is everything.
12. Be Somebody
Be somebody who makes everybody feel like a somebody.
13. Be Strong
Be strong, But not rude.
Be kind, But not weak.
Be bold, But not bully.
Be humble, But not timid.
Be proud, But not arrogant.
14. The Best Kind Of Love
The best love is the one that makes you a better person, without changing you into someone other than yourself.
15. You Are Always Responsible For How You Act
You are always responsible for how you act no matter how you feel. REMEMBER THAT!
16. You Do Not Find The Happy Life
You do not find the happy life - you make it.
17. There’s No Need To Be Perfect
There's no need to be perfect to inspire others. Let people get inspired by how you deal with your imperfections.
18. The Most Desired Gift Of Love
The most desired gift of Love is not diamond or roses or chocolates. It is focused attention.
19. Sometimes It’s Hard To Do This
Sometimes it's hard to open your hand, but you need to..
20. Respect Is Earned
Respect is earned.
Honesty is appreciated.
Trust is gained.
Loyalty is returned.
21. Everything In Life Is Easier When You Do This
Everything in life is easier when you don't concern yourself with what everybody else is doing.
22. Your Life Only Gets Better When You Do This
Your life will only gets better when you do work on yourself and the rest will follow.
23. Don’t Find Someone That’s Perfect
Don't find someone that's perfect; find someone that makes you feel that way.
24. Never Sacrifice These Three Things
Never sacrifice these three things,
YOUR FAMILY,
YOUR HEART,
YOUR DIGNITY.
25. Pick Your Battles
Pick your battles. You don't have to show up to every arguments you're invited to.
26. Life Doesn’t Have To Be Perfect
Life doesn't have to be perfect. It's meant to be beautiful.
27. A Strong Woman Does This
A strong women accepts both compliments and criticism graciously, knowing that it takes both sun and rain for a flower to grow.
28. We All Make Time For These Things In Life
We all make time for what we feel is important in our lives.
29. Don’t Fear Your Enemies
Don't fear the enemy that attacks you, but the fake friend that hugs you.
30. People Will Judge You By Your Actions
People will judge you by your actions, not your intentions. You may have a heart of gold, but so does a hard-boiled egg.
31. This Is The Greatest Cruelty
The greatest cruelty is our casual blindness to the despair of others.
32. Time Decides Who You Meet In Your Life
Time decides who you meet in life, your heart decides who you want in your life, and your behaviors decides who stays in your life.
33. I’m Stronger Because I Had To Be
I'm strong b'coz I had to be,
I'm smarter b'coz of my mistakes,
Happier b'coz of my sadness I've known,
and Now wiser b'coz I learned.
34. Not Everyone Thinks The Way You Think
Not everyone thinks the way you think, knows the things you know, believes the things you believe nor acts the way you would act. Remember this and you will go a long way in getting along with people.
35. Never Explain yourself to anyone
Never explain yourself to anyone because the
person who likes you doesn’t need it and the person who dislikes you
won’t believe it.
36. If You Want Something You Never Had…
If you want to have something you never had you've got to do something you've never done. Remember For everything that you have
missed,you have gained something else,and for everything you gain,you
lose something.It is about your outlook towards life,You can either
regret or rejoice .The price of discipline is always less than the pain
of regret,Self discipline is the biggest investment for success in
life.
37. Pick Your Five Favorite Books
Picking five favorite books is like picking the five body parts you'd most like not to lose.
38. Sometimes You’ve Got To Be Able To Listen To Yourself
Sometimes you've got to be able to listen to yourself and be okay with no one else understanding.
39. Change Your Own Circumstances
Change your own circumstances instead of expecting your circumstances to be changed by someone else.
40. 3 Types Of People To Surround Yourself With
3 types of people to surround yourself with:
1) The inspired
2) The excited
3) The grateful